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Not trying to start an argument and "take a joke" is not acceptable just trying to make people aware.
Peace.
brittany responding to a comment by JOKER
10.11.13 - 9:07 pm
Oh damn, Friday night home alone?
Pobrecita, mi mijita.
What is it this time, bath salts or meth? How will they flavor your inane imbalanced postings?
Methinks you should blend some Robitussing with your Ritalin, summon deezova up for some self-loathing gender missives.
sleepy responding to a comment by brittany
10.11.13 - 11:52 pm
Awwww yes a woman at home on a Friday night must clearly have something wrong with her. Poor baby!!
Imma be a dick to you. Something tells me if I went through your MR posts the majority of them would be trolling and negative. I think you need some negative trolling brought in your life. Consider me the karma police. I like "internet police" better tho.
What kind of dumbass makes fun of me for being home on a weekend...but you are too....didja even go to second friday, LOSER? Or did nobody want you??? Shit does anyone even know who you are, or do you just feel special as an MR forum celebrity? Fuck for all I know you don't ride a bicycle. I hear the Elders don't have to ride bicycles. Mmmmmmm two can play this game.
And yet, if I was all needy and needed to be out on the town to feel happy I'd be sooo unattractive right??? But when I say fuck yes I get to choose my own dinner without male input, watch The Bad Girl's Club and not some dude's shit I don't wanna watch, go to sleep satisfied, and be like YEAHHHHH INDEPENDENT WOMYYYYYNNNNN everybody wants to fuck me so I mean really, go fuck yourself. Clearly nobody else is.
Surprise surprise nobody's life exists to please you or to act how you want them to act. Dumbfuck. But you gonna act how I want you to act. Yeah, you are. And I don't have a job, so I don't care about weekends, and I have time for this. Clearly, you do too.
So let's play. I'm pretty damn good at what I do. And no, I really don't care what a bunch of idiots on the internet think of me. Surprise! I do care about you taking responsibility for your own waste of fucking life and big mouth tho. Ya know what I'm sayin??
If you really thought I was on drugs and crazy, wouldn't the logical next step be to leave me alone??? Durrrrrr. I can go #crazywhitegirl on you in two seconds flat and ruin your life!!!! Luckily I'm not THAT crazy ;) Most of the time.
But if you wanna play idiot games, boy am I down. Been trolling since before you knew what MR was biatch. I know a punk when I see one. I know how to handle one too.
Peace.
p.s. there will be no "regulating" on me taking part in the same behaviors many have for years and doing so under my real name always willing to meet somebody in person to hash it out. I appreciate The MR Elder's attempts at fairness despite the high school bitching and drama I know goes in the Elder's ears when you all feel threatened by someone not interested in the status quo (ironic, right?). So you know I do appreciate you and do apologize for the drama that comes into your life, but I do think you kind of put yourself in that position, and you know, keep it up. I just gotta do me like you do you. Good karma is good to have. Morality rocks!! xoxo
brittany responding to a comment by sleepy
10.12.13 - 6:52 am
p.s. you're a tool. try not to reply until the afternoon i'd like to have a productive morning. I can troll ya later. punkass. #internetbadass #itsbrittanybitch #yesiknowhashtagsdontworkcomeupwithanewinsultkthxbai
brittany responding to a comment by sleepy
10.12.13 - 6:56 am
I'm a suicidal failure, look my life's a failure
I cant make it in rap, even my birth's an error
Do what I can to catch a quick death
But I'm meant to be here and thats fuckin hell I live with
coldcut responding to a comment by brittany
10.12.13 - 9:48 am
"I pick my head up, with a face full of drool
Look around the classroom, now I'm some geek in high school
Get fucked with in the hallway and can't do shit
But write names on bullets and fill a few clips"
damn i wanted to embed that shit :((((((( look it up cage - movies for the blind is sick!!!! if you're running around like OMG I KNOW TECH N9NE AND ATMOSPHERE you're a fucking loser and need a hip hop edumacation kthx.
also, if you already knew I liked cage and that's why you posted the lyrics to contribute to your sadly unoriginal "kill yourself" troll post, who are you and why are you stalking me?
Six sentences and I get War and Peace.
Awesome.
Also awesome that you managed to insert gender politics where there was no mention or insinuation of said politics.
One note trolling. So sad. Maybe you can get some work the American Heritage Group as a paid poster. Try to work for the Russians to clog up gay rights chat rooms. You sound like you have the vitriol.
So... Did you ride your bike today, or does that hinge on whether there's a group ride or not? And since its painfully obvious that no one likes you, does that mean you don't ride?
sleepy responding to a comment by brittany
10.12.13 - 1:01 pm
Always being told to not take things so seriously!!!!
Don't you get it by now that doesn't work for me???
I shouldn't take oppression so seriously, or the ways specific men in the community treat me like shit so seriously, or when the internet crosses over into real life so seriously, I could go on and on you know....all the shit you lazy, irresponsible loser trolls sweep under the rug. Jesus fucking christ, where does it end??????? Shut up you invalid, irrelevant loser. I would understand if you were like, 19, but all you old-schoolers have to be like 30+ by now. Can you start maturing now please????? I mean I did it's only fair.....
I happen to know a lot of the people on this forum really do believe I am mentally ill. What do I know that you don't believe that??? And when you do things like make comments about suicide I
1) Thank the heavens "depression" and "suicidal" are not problems that plague me. (but you don't know that...)
2) Remember back to a time on this forum where bullying got so intense, someone almost committed suicide. And we're lucky she didn't. And you guys are lucky I'm not as crazy as I'm painted, because that kind of shit happens. A lot.
3) If you said something like that to somebody a lot weaker than me, they might actually go do something really stupid. Maybe not suicide, but whether it's self-harm, substance abuse, whatever the fuck, it is not your right to be an internet bully like that.
There's trolling, and there's crossing the line. Imma bully you. The end. Until you get a fucking life or brain, whatever comes first.
I take real life people who I have to see on rides and are too much of pussies to confront the people they nearly kill very, very seriously.
get used to it. I had the option to do things your way remember?? I say no thank you, you may keep what you have. I will continue to speak out for common sense and moral behavior.
and mix in a little immaturity and "taste of your own medicine" for effect.
kthx.
brittany responding to a comment by coldcut
10.12.13 - 3:14 pm
AS FOR SLEEPY, who seems to be dumber than coldcut....
Also awesome that you managed to insert gender politics where there was no mention or insinuation of said politics. You're welcome, I intend to bring up stereotypes against women and gender issues early and often. Would you ever make fun of a man for being home alone on a Friday night?? Would it even cross your mind??
Would you speak to a man with such demeaning, degrading, "poor baby" behavior? No, you wouldn't. I'm not your girl, I'm not your darling, not your fucking babe, and not a "pobrecita" or your mijita ya ignorant cunt. Maybe if I didn't have to explain these simple fucking things about speaking without a sexist biased to you I wouldn't have to post about the realities of the hilarity of prostitution. But alas, you're an idiot.
Do I think you are capable of arguing intelligently, and with valid logic? Not a chance! So I'm going to say what I'm going to say and it'd going to be one-sided until you learn how to act because I'm not going to put up with you and take a troll THAT seriously.
Come on baby boy. puhlease. I do this for what we teach everybody reading silently. You are just a pawn. Play with me :)
One note trolling? Yes I'm consistent. My therapist said that was a good thing. ;)
So... Did you ride your bike today, or does that hinge on whether there's a group ride or not? And since its painfully obvious that no one likes you, does that mean you don't ride?
Ya dumbass you can't take my insults!!! Come up with your own insults you shitty ass troll. Not riding a bike is MY INSULT FOR YOU. I'm willing to RACE you (perhaps on my heavy vintage mixte, even) I am THAT sure you are a loser who never rides a bike and I don't need to sit here and tell you how often I ride to prove how big my ovaries are. I'll fuckin show ya, put your money where your mouth is. Or....shut up :)
The last group ride I went on someone put his hands on me (because boys can be very reactive to a strong and dominant female rejecting their sexual advances, especially one who use to be very easy to get with) and all the boys think it's funny and I'm overreacting and all that does is send me the message if someone went on to try to rape me they would treat it with the same total diffusion of responsibility.
If that ever happens again, I am calling the cops, so I am taking a break to figure out which rides I'm least likely to be sexually assaulted at, but thank you for giving me the opportunity to let everyone know any unconsensual touching of me will result a call to the police to let them know about an assault because I don't plan on going to jail for assault of someone who assaulted me first. Fuck that.
But sexism doesn't exist in the bike scene.
And I go through situations like that and have to hear you guys bitch and moan about female-only spaces, when you make exceedingly clear women are to "get with the program" or they are unsafe in your space.
Anyway, I don't even know your name, so I don't know if anyone likes you. But you're a pussy so you're gonna keep it that way. I'm so surprised....I really thought you were a real life person with real life brains and emotions....but you, like coldcut, are just a person who exists on the internet to play the games I intend to win, because they are translating into real life and I am proud of it.
xoxo
brittany responding to a comment by sleepy
10.12.13 - 3:23 pm
actually since we've brought it up, if anyone knows of some rides I could be welcomed at where we can be sure no man will put his hands on me no matter how short my skirt is or how often I say "I love Latino boys" because I'm honestly not trying to bring 5-0 to rides, that'd be great
or at least, if someone did, someone would have my back to confront that person, not expect me to have a fist fight with a man over 6' tall in order to protect myself.
i'm 100% sure half the people who talk about me have never met me in real life (it's always amusing when someone tells me who you guys are in real life. I never know any of you from the forum!!), so you can ask the other half. They'll tell you i'm pretty predictably loud and obnoxious, but my intentions are good and I treat other people well. as long as they treat me well. :) I'll be quieter if you remind me to be.
until I figure that all out I guess it's Ova rides and Clitoral Mass for me.
Any advice Roadblock?? what should i do if a man puts his hands on me on a group ride? Like grabs my wrist forcefully so I can't move away from him leaving me with a bruise, something like that. Not like the all-too-common stomach grab. I'll just move somebody's hands and inform them I'm not into it in a situation like that. . I'm talking straight up assault. When someone 100% knows I don't want to be touched yet does it anyway....
You can't tell me I'm just attracting drama, you have no idea how much of my situations are of my own making, and how much of it is in fact that I sleep with whoever I want on the rides and wear thigh highs (which actually I thought was super common with girls in the bike scene, so I dunno why that is bringing me judgement..), and the boys who assume a "slut" should sleep with EVERYBODY get jealous and forceful...
I know you don't want me causing drama in the bike scene, so you tell me what to do??
Someone tell Roadblock to check this thread.
Let's learn something. It's gotta be more productive than trolling with sleepy and coldcut. And if I'm gonna waste time here and tell people about things that are actually really embarrassing to me and I hope never happen in my life again....let's make it productive?
i also intend to call this person out if he ever wins any races, and it's likely so, maybe best to give me advice now before I raise hell later :) I've already called him out on a more local level, which is more appropriate. I know I should have called the cops when it happened, but I really didn't want to put the cops in the lives of the rest of the ride, the ride leader, etc and I was really confused about what to do. also wasn't sure how to interpret the threats I received about calling the police from people I know to brag about violent/gangster-type activity.
and to be honest i was a little traumatized over everyone laughing in my face when I said I'd call the cops if he ever put his hands on me again. I thought the one free pass was exceedingly generous.
Person to person, brittany, I think you are a bad person. Maybe think about not being such a dumbass. You might want to move far away from here in order to escape the circle of people who know that you are a terribly boring and annoying person.
Nobody likes you, not even the pervs.
deezovas responding to a comment by brittany
10.12.13 - 4:05 pm
I find it pretty annoying too. I receive all this drama and have to make hard decisions about what I stand by and the messages I want to send to people very often.
A few days ago I bitched at some ridaaz about the influence they were having on the younger generation of ridazz.
Today I was so ready to make a somewhat dangerous (5-way) red light that I know very well and had done before, but this little girl with her dad was looking at me.
Anyone who's been with me on a ride knows I fucking hate lights. I have about as much patience for them as I do fake internet badasses, like you, coldcut.
But that little girl was looking at me, either for my flower skirt or the pink on my bike, and I sat at that damn red light with no cars passing through the intersection cursing the day I figured out I had influence over people and I decided to walk the talk, and live the things I preach to others. And hoping that little girl would wait at all red lights in the future.
I didn't think I'd tell anyone that story, but you know, I make those decisions every day. And I hope I'm making the right ones, while you don't even care about or notice the people around you.
It is extremely annoying, time consuming, dramatic and inconvenient. It's really hard. I cry sometimes.
I will let you know if it ever stops being worth it.
brittany responding to a comment by coldcut
10.12.13 - 5:17 pm
That's intense. You're both arguing with each other?
Was the psychic backlash so powerful that it activated both of your persona's?
Not to take the specialness out of your insult, but that whole "pobrecita" bit was recycled from last week. I threw that one at some dude who kept harping about "Men's Rights" on Mother Jone's article about Jezebel.com. Called him a "pobrecito" who shouldn't worry cuz his Papi's coming soon.
Trollfessionals do that sometimes. Use the same comments. Kind of lame, but the material dries up sometimes. You can only go so far in calling someone a Fakenger.
What's up with the Foster the People vid? Nice song, creepy insinuation.
How long before you can come up with another epic post? You should team up with George R. Martin. Game of Thrones would probably go into 50 books in a month, albeit with a completely nonsensical paranoia driven plot.
sleepy responding to a comment by brittany
10.12.13 - 9:56 pm
bringin down the house. fuck the status quo THESE GUYS ARE ASSHOLES WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT ANYONE IN THE BICYCLE SCENE PRE-2008. ELITEIST BULLSHIT MOST OF US GOT INTO THE BIKE SCENE TO GET AWAY FROM.
FUCK YOU. BE REAL, STOP ACTING LIKE AN INTERNET BULLY, CONTRIBUTE TO THE CYCLING COMMUNITY UNDER REAL NAMES.
UNTIL THEN.
#ITSBRITTANYBITCH
brittany responding to a comment by sleepy
10.13.13 - 12:53 pm
*Elitist.
Or was that intentional?
Clever.
And what pray tell, do you contribute? I mean, you walk in like a pistolero, all swagger and pomp, then descend into accusations of bullying and harassment when reality makes itself clear.
And I did mean psychic, although in retrospect, psychotic is more appropriate.
Pro tip: you don't need a scene to ride a bike.
sleepy responding to a comment by brittany
10.13.13 - 1:28 pm
i think you two ganged up very intensely on me very early, saying i'm on meth and suicidal, and i shut it down real quick.
and now you mad.
but no i'll let you know when i think something is bullying...if you want to know, you can just ask......i mostly troll on here these days...... you guys fake dumb more than a player..... so wack.
#wacklyfe
brittany responding to a comment by sleepy
10.18.13 - 2:48 pm
if you read, you'll see i only mentioned bullying saying: in the past, bullying has gotten intense, and i think people, specifically you people, need to understand that your idiocy needs to be more ..... thought out? considerate? discriminate? well-meaning? positive? make you look like better people?
i'm not cool with it.
you are speaking directly to me, and i'm telling you i'm not cool with it, and what am I to care if you're not cool with my reaction?
i just said "pro tip" to someone an hour ago!!! are you stalking me? did i get that from you?
u spamming 4 attention 2, bro?
Peddlin' your designer hot air special?
You should print this out and frame it. Third time this year I'm giving you attention.
Maybe you can make it into a spoke card next time you parade up and down DTLA with your fakenger crew.
sleepy responding to a comment by PC
10.18.13 - 8:05 pm
Um. In this thread, I just pointed out [rather badly] how obviously dumb it is to point out the stupidity of sexual slavery. Although, in retrospect, the dork obviously deserved some sort of comment. I don't get why you just copy and pasted links and focused on hunting down the horrible trolls who persecuted you for being... Yeah. You could've been throwing down with Mr. Sex Slavery is teh funnies.
So you decided to take "No shit Sherlock" ingest it, let it stew for a while, and excrete it on this thread. A spam thread.
Because it's Brittany's world.
My cat likes me.
sleepy responding to a comment by brittany
10.18.13 - 8:24 pm
What happens when a girl who can't let go of 2008 meets a guy who can't let go of 2005? Could it be...marriage?
We Used To Be Important. An especially flaccid romantic comedy from Schwinn Paramount Pictures. Rated PG-13 (sexual situations; language; dated pop culture references; soul-crushing futility).
Coming soon to a Netflix queue near you, and staying there forever.
So if you want to point out my stupidity....and then i point out your stupidity....
I STILL END UP AS THE DUMB BITCH
MUWAHAHAHA
you guys seriously, you've created a monster. just stop. this has all turned out really positively for me. I became more accepting, more calm when I want to be, and wayyyyy more aggressive when I want to be.
Like seriously, these attempts to tear me down are having a terrible opposite reaction.
1 year ago I would have let you be full of shit and never walked straight up to you on a ride and called you on your shit.
One year later.....
honestly sweetie at this point i don't even view them as people. they're just online representations of things i hate that DO get manifested onto rides and IMO are the core issues... elitism mainly...it's the problem in any scene but oh man the enabling you guys do for each other when no shit, probably more than half of us are alcoholics/addicts...this is not looking out for a community...be fking honest about it. when these guys wanna say something to my face, they become people, but i saw hamilton last night. it's never gonna happen. they aren't people, they're online personas you could say the same thing about popular MR trolls/people, they are not the same in real life and if they were, people would hate them
but the popularity scale judges that? fuck that.
if i don't take it well or react perfectly all the time, so what, i put a lot of pressure on myself, spend a lot of time on shit, and do a lot of this bullshit to speak for silent people
brittany responding to a comment by sleepy
10.19.13 - 11:47 am
that's one mighty ironic post for a troll who STILL INVOLVES HIMSELF IN THIS SHIT..... for what 5+ years.
MR PHILOSOPHY:
IT'S OK IF I DO IT. IF YOU DO YOU'RE DUMB
lol this is fun :) happy saturday guys. we should go on a ride soon.
I feel like having a Get-To-Know-You Brittany ride. So everyone can stop coming up to me and asking me to introduce myself and answer questions. We can just get it done in one fell swoop.
too bad no one would come >.<
i don't know you but i just want to ask you to please, please, please stop advocating for women's issues and just start working on yourself. you don't speak for women. the hatred you constantly spew is disgusting, although entertaining.
i don't know where you got the idea that to be a feminist you have to be angry and antagonistic to anything with a dick. who are these women you are allowing to inform your mind? the girls i know are all top of the line and seem to get along fine with men on rides.
i've met many of these riders and they're wonderful. they fuck with you because you literally beg them too. what is with your need to play the martyr? most strong women i know don't fall into that pattern.
never have i felt fearful or uncomfortable on rides. i don't think anyone is out to rape me. you need to figure out how to confront your perception of reality in a peaceful way. this lashing out is not affording you any credibility.
i've been watching your break-down for a long time on this forum. it's not pretty. you are the most sexist bully i have ever seen and you should really just stop. find positive hobbies and if you decide you want to actually make a difference regarding women's rights, look at ways to do it that are actually effective.
I am sorry you associate my anger with feminism, and hope you can work on your own sexist stereotypes. from now on you can consider me an angry human, if that will make you feel better. i know an angry woman is so unsightly ;)
Feel free to get to know me and figure out what i am actually angry about.
i'd rather play the martyr than the roles you would have me play. smile and nod. smile and nod.
please feel free to quit telling me how to act
if bullies don't want to be bullied, they ought to change their behavior. if you are taking my online behavior seriously - LOL. man you guys just don't get it. which is it, am I to take the forums seriously or as a total joke?
please, tell me exactly how to act and think to please everybody. I clearly am very interested in these detached, full of shit ways of thinking. please, let me be like you.
i never claimed to be a feminist activist. i sit on my ass on the internet. I would never call myself ACTIVE. hahaha
I'm standing up for the issues that are prevalent in my own life. I went to a ride on Thursday and 4 different men touched me. Two strangers grabbed my stomach, two people who I NEVER talk to smacked my ass. No one is helping me fix that, including you. So either put your money where your mouth is, or continue to shut the fuck up and do NOTHING.
This is a problem in my life. Feel free to stay out of it.
i could care less about "feminism" as a whole. your assumptions are hot tho.
i just mentioned being molested and harassed by guys and was told to shut up about my "feminist cunt crap" on facebook.
you guys are teh lulz.
brittany responding to a comment by animosity
10.19.13 - 1:04 pm
if i was on a bike ride, and a man and a woman started yelling at each other, and neutral parties who did not know either party, nor what was going on, decided to get involved, they would be more likely to "protect" the man and wonder why the woman is "acting crazy"
you can deny it, but i don't care. I am 100% sure. especially if alcohol was involved.
please excuse me if i don't care what you think.
when i'm right, i'm right.
if i don't express it in a way that you enjoy, stop fucking reading.
you guys should really get psychology degrees and start a therapy group.
who knew a bunch of people whose social lives resemble a high school drama reality tv show (AND MOST ARE OVER 30!!), whom have one persona on the internet and a different one in person (i'm told I seem diff too tho..), whom bully people on the internet for 5+ years and never get bored with it, whom get drunk more days of the week than not, were just great examples of mental health.
hahahahahaha.
i'll be sure to inform my therapist of your concerns.
and i've been watching you guys call me, and each other bullies for the last year and tbh i'm really proud that the awareness is going around that bullying happens and is bad!!! IDC if you're saying it in jest...the pure AMOUNT of how much "bullying" is mentioned is great publicity for my anti-bullying campaign. i'm so cool with it.
am i being a bully? how so? what actions do I take that make me a bully? where do i cross the line from trolling into bullying?
you are certainly a big bag of contradictions. i know what you are angry about because you spout it off constantly in completely unrelated threads. you have cried feminist in countless posts.
' i know an angry woman is so unsightly ;) '
lol. an angry person is unsightly. from your posts, i see you as a potential domestic abuser. i imagine you to be no different that the big burly man in the wife beater being arrested for popping his wife in the mouth for speaking out of turn. you are the only person i have ever heard directly threaten to hit another person with a u-lock. you are unhinged.
how do you react when people grab you on rides? this has in fact happen to me, but because i am a rational human being, it didn't become a huge issue. it's as simple as slapping the hand away and telling the person that it's not ok. some of my best friends in the bike scene have started off trying to sleep with me and all it took to set things straight was a clear message with a bit of humor attached - i know i'm sexy and everything, but until i invite you to touch, it's hands off, asshole.
they get it. anyway, it's no different than walking into a bar - gay or straight. women touch just as much.
and no - no one on rides will take sides with the dude because a woman is 'acting all crazy' or however you put it. this isn't 1901.
animosity responding to a comment by brittany
10.19.13 - 1:23 pm
thank you for minimizing the womens issues in my life and projecting your experience onto mine which really you can not relate to as we are not the same people, and you do not know anything about my situations nor the men in my life.
feminism has serious problems because feminists hate other feminists. women are spending more time bringing each other down, and fighting about "true feminism" then bringing down the patriarchy.
sorry animosity, i do have time to argue with these men. You? No. I didn't ask for it to be 1901. i will ask to be free in a public space on a public ride to not have my body violated. I will become angry when people gang up on me because I say something.
I will have no patience for women who discount my experiences because men do not react to them the same way. I. do. not. give. a. shit. I would never say "your experiences are all in your head, crazy woman."
your feminism is gross. I don't want it. Thanks tho.
thanks for the judgement by the way. I didn't create an issue when the first, second, third, fourth man touched me on the ride. so fucking irrational. Big ups on talking about shit that doesn't involve you, you know nothing about, and ya never will. You are true MR family. <3
brittany responding to a comment by animosity
10.19.13 - 1:32 pm
you cannot expect a person to know your boundaries until you tell them your boundaries. different cultures have different definitions of how to behave with each other. come on, you should know this.
as a woman, you'd like to think you can walk into a big group of guys (who are constantly pawing each other, mind you) and expect them to immediately change the group dynamic because you are a female. you can't do it that quickly. not everyone is enlightened, but most have the capacity to learn. people learn best when provided a clear, consistent message. you have to teach them what is acceptable to you by vocalizing it to them.
i'm not trying to minimize your experiences, i'm just trying to offer a simple technique to help you turn the tides.
I TOLD THEM I'D HIT THEM IN THE FACE WITH A U LOCK AND/OR CALL THE POLICE
THEY KNOW MY FUCKING BOUNDARIES
who the fuck are you to ASSume I don't set a clear, consistent message. When the fuck did you meet me, witness my interactions and situations?
you don't go on rides.
you don't know what's going on
you are yap yap yap
you are coming off (to me) as a judgmental person, assuming i handle these situations irrationally, and don't know how to set proper boundaries.
trust me, there was a lot less drama around here when i wasn't setting boundaries.
ya don't know me, you don't know the men who touch me, and i really really dislike arguing with other women.
i am looking through your pictures on facebook. you are nothing like me. who the fuck are you to say that men would treat me differently (BLUNTLY: NOT VIOLATE ME) IF ONLY I WOULD ACT BETTER.
that's shitty ass feminism right there.
A+
brittany responding to a comment by animosity
10.19.13 - 2:07 pm
p.s. if you actually want to get to know me as a person instead of assuming i'm sure your friends will happily direct you to my facebook. i don't want to talk to your ass, but you can see my timeline and instagram.
sometime's it's better to know people as they really are, then for how they act on the internet.
brittany responding to a comment by animosity
10.19.13 - 2:10 pm
bul·ly1
ˈbo͝olē/Submit
noun
1.
a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker.
synonyms: persecutor, oppressor, tyrant, tormentor, intimidator; More
verb
verb: bully; 3rd person present: bullies; past tense: bullied; past participle: bullied; gerund or present participle: bullying
1.
use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants.
are you guys calling me strong, powerful and influential? i'm so confused.
'you are coming off (to me) as a judgmental person, assuming i handle these situations irrationally, and don't know how to set proper boundaries.'
'I TOLD THEM I'D HIT THEM IN THE FACE WITH A U LOCK AND/OR CALL THE POLICE THEY KNOW MY FUCKING BOUNDARIES'
besides the fact that this speaks for itself... are you seriously saying that because you threatened one guy on one ride with a u-lock, all guys on all rides should now know your boundaries? how is this logical?
'you don't go on rides.
you don't know what's going on'
'i am looking through your pictures on facebook.'
so you know i don't go on rides because what - you have looked at pictures on my facebook showing me on countless rides?
also, yes. people prefer not to keep the company of brats.
animosity responding to a comment by brittany
10.19.13 - 2:33 pm
you keep bringing up how i'm a terrible feminist yet i've never actually claimed to be one. i don't call myself a feminist, like i don't call myself a socialist or straight because that puts me in a box and leaves me open to being pigeon-holed. although i may have leanings towards these ideals, i don't buy into every definition they offer.
if i had to pick something, i suppose i'd consider myself a humanist.
feminism had a huge hand in prohibition - and you know how well that worked out - and continues to this day to push for the ongoing criminalization of sex work. gimmie a break. fuck women who expect they can force certain behaviors on other women.
believe you me, i haven't always been this old and wise. there was a time when i was very anti-men because of experiences i've had in the past. that experiment basically ended up in me getting my ass kicked hard by the very worst of mankind. it wasn't worth it. people can only take so much bull-shit from a loud-mouthed bitch until they actually snap back.
you're causing your pain to continue by dwelling on it and letting your angst color your opinion of all men. this is stereotyping at it's finest and you can't even see it, can you?