Chris could use some help
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TheDude at 10.20.09 - 2:38 am
Chris is not doing so well right now. He is in the bathroom throwing up blood and I am concerned for him. He refuses to go to the hospital and I am not sure what to do. I don't really know if this will work or not, but I am hoping for someone to come drop off some medication for him. I would go out and get it myself, but I don't really know anyone who I can buy it off of. I know it is late, but he is suffering right now. He refuses to ask anyone for help, or even admit how bad the situation is. I know how much smoking has helped him in his struggle with his health issues, so I thought that it might help him feel better if he can smoke a little bit. If you can help him out, you would be doing a great thing. I know it's a long shot, but I feel like I need to do something to try and help him feel better. We live in Alhambra, and I can reimburse you for your efforts. I just want to see Chris feel better.
Denise (Chris' girlfriend)
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Coughing up blood doesn't sound like a marijuana fixed problem. You need to go to county is you don't have insurance. County USC/UCLA in downtown is your best bet. If it's really bad I have a car and can take you.
ScooterHayes10.20.09 - 3:19 am
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I hope Chris gets better... I'm stuck at work all day... can anyone come through on this for him? Hey Denise, let me know if you're still in need later, ok? email me: passionforwords at gmail...
kryxtanicole10.20.09 - 11:00 am
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i'm aware of some of his health issuse,
Please take him to the hospital it is way more serious than a bowl can fix, he needs help ASAP.
i doesn't matter what he refuses to do, you need to take control of the situation and get him to the Los Angeles County-USC Medical Center,
if the problem is cash, they'll work with you,
With smoking, your just soothing the pain the the damage is still taking place.
Chris, please go!
Denise, Please take him!
YOU CAN NOT AVOID THIS.
79 that shit!
Delirium10.20.09 - 11:07 am
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yeah i got a whole heap of pain meds and herb....but if i were throwing up blood....fuck id be on my way to the hospital....I live in the valley and my # in profile.
in this economy
in this country
it is soooo important to keep yourself healthy.
filmillr10.20.09 - 11:59 am
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If anything, take him to a medical marijuana physician. You might be able to find a place with same day appointments available...he will most certainly get approved...and will be able to go to a store and buy medical grade today...and have easy access to it from here on out.
la duderina10.20.09 - 12:19 pm
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Chris has stomach cancer. The doctors said he'd be dead a few months ago. Western medicine is a failing institution...maybe they can do something for him, but then again, maybe he'll just be subjected to sitting in an uncomfortable waiting room for hours, given a bunch of meds and shuffled out the door... Chris has spent plenty of time at hospitals and doctor's offices from what I know, and has a right to make the choice to go or not go. Between Denise and Chris, I believe they are can make reasonable judgments. That's just my opinion.
kryxtanicole responding to a
comment by filmillr
10.20.09 - 12:27 pm
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I called Drooby, he said he can call and help Chris out. I offered to drive if necessary.
I'm kind of with you, krista. but it's not western medicine, it's the health-care system.
the reverend dak responding to a
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10.20.09 - 12:35 pm
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Lets not debate on this one... seriously... this is fucked up.
You guys seem to know the guy, so I hope you all are able to help. This really sucks. ... fuck...
Chris, I dont know you... but man, keep fighting and let your friends help you too.
md2 responding to a
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10.20.09 - 12:40 pm
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I'm with hospitalization on this one, get him there and get it checked out.
Once he's stabilized and able, perhaps a later trip to a Tijuana doctor is in order.
There seems to be plenty flocking there to get additional medical assistance.
bentstrider responding to a
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10.20.09 - 12:41 pm
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I would help, but you guys are all much, much nearer than I am at this moment.
bentstrider responding to a
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10.20.09 - 12:41 pm
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Wow, this is uh... embarrassing. I had no idea she posted this until right now when I got a concerned phone call.
Yes, I was throwing up blood last night, and I didn't go to the hospital. The only thing they can do for me really is try and stop the bleeding, and give me pain killers. Once they know I have cancer, they won't treat me for anything else until I at least try to do something more for the cancer. This, and many other personal reasons have prompted me not to seek any further medical attention unless it is an emergency, and I am in the highest level of pain.
They don't have much to offer me except life support and cancer treatment, one I don't need, the other I don't want. A drip line of THC would be a novel idea though.....
I have far too much living left to do to get stuck in a hospital again. My time in the hospital has been the worst in my life.
As the saying once went, I prefer to die on my feet than to live on my knees.... Now, I know that might sound dramatic, but I assure you it was not a rash or overly emotional decision. This is my second battle with cancer, and I have total confidence I will remain victorious.
I hope her concerned post didn't worry anybody too much. I am a strong dude, and I will be fine. I still plan on working full time to support my household and girlfriend. I still plan on having an amazing time riding my bike with you rascals. I just need a bucket-o-weed to mask the pain sometimes, and times are tough, so I can't afford anything for a few more weeks.
I really wish she wouldn't have posted this in such a public manner. There is nothing to do but smoke a fatty and enjoy life. If someone wants to come drop something off for me, I can gladly give you some beer or rum or wine or food.
TheDude10.20.09 - 12:54 pm
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Seriously Dude, go get evaluated for medical marijuana...if it really helps you that much you can get it legally and easily. there are stores EVERYwhere...some even deliver.
you should really look into it.
la duderina responding to a
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10.20.09 - 1:07 pm
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You're a brave dude....I can barely handle the flu....If the least they can do try to stop the bleeding, you really should do that. Otherwise, sounds like you have a plan and hope to see you out soon. No need to be embarrassed....be well Chris.
barleye responding to a
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10.20.09 - 1:11 pm
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ROADBLOCK... can you do him a favor and delete this thread?
md2 responding to a
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10.20.09 - 1:12 pm
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Damn Chris, you sure you shouldn't get to the hospital? At least let them look you over. There must be some doctor you've been working with?
Hoping for the best.
User1 responding to a
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10.20.09 - 1:12 pm
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Once I get a paycheck I was planning on doing that. I know where to get the prescription easily and all of that, it's just a money issue at this point. I can get herb with or without the card, but obviously it would be nice to be legal, be able to receive deliveries and whatnot.
TheDude responding to a
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10.20.09 - 1:16 pm
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that is true, it is their right make their own decisions for themselves and their lives.
but we're people who care and love that guy and all we want is whats in the best interest for his health, being uncomfortable in a waiting room is no reason to not go and seek medical attention.
The doctors said he'd be dead a few months ago. Western medicine is a failing institution...maybe they can do something for him, but then again, maybe he'll just be subjected to sitting in an uncomfortable waiting room for hours, given a bunch of meds and shuffled out the door...
I'm sure seeing a doctor who can possibly prevent more bloody puke is better than accepting what a doctor said a few months ago.
it really doesn't matter how you feel about western medicine. ..you should encourage him in seeing a Dr.
Delirium responding to a
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10.20.09 - 3:06 pm
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you can't hold the fact she told us you needed help against her, obviously she cares about ya
she gets +10.000 in my book
I think i re-up tonight, i can hook you up with a gram or more, depending IF I get it.
Delirium responding to a
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10.20.09 - 3:17 pm
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Actually, having been caretaker to two people as they died of cancer, I agree with Chris on this one 100%. Traditional Western treatment is not as infallible as many seem to believe it to be- just look up the success rates of most chemo/radiation treatments in JAMA or the New England Journal of Medicine, with particular attention to the most recent and groundbreaking studies into matching specific treatments with specific cancers.
Coughing up blood is not normal for a healthy person, and in that case should necessitate a race to the E.R. But when you know the cause, especially when it's cancer, there's a very limited amount that the doctors can do for you. Most of the courses of treatment they provide only prolong the period of discomfort and pain while severely restricting quality of life. In some cases (non-terminal cancers) the trade off is only temporary, and therefore worthwhile. In others, it's just unnecessary agony for the patient and their loved ones.
Keep on fighting, Chris. We love you.
danya responding to a
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10.20.09 - 3:22 pm
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I love you guys too, you are all so awesome.
As usual, danya is well spoken and experienced;
"Most of the courses of treatment they provide only prolong the period of discomfort and pain while severely restricting quality of life".
I am fighting, and winning.
Thank you for the love and concern, everybody.
You have all made me feel very loved, and that means a lot to me.
TheDude responding to a
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10.20.09 - 3:47 pm
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<3 Kick that cancer's ass! There's much riding, and baking, to be had!
kryxtanicole responding to a
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10.20.09 - 3:51 pm
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would you accept the pain hes going through or would you seek Med attn?
are you a Nurse or a
caretaker? b/c there is a world of difference. unless you're a nurse hired as a caretaker.
hey though I'm not going to argue with him or you or whatever anyone else says
i've made my point and put my feelings out there. fact it, i love that guys and would only want him to feel better.
maybe i'm getting all touchy cuz i have to go the the Animal Hospital, my six month old puppy, JellyBelly, might have canine parvo virus :0(
I'm so sad and worried,
i can not even imagine how she feels.
Pain is Inevitable - Suffering is Optional
Delirium responding to a
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10.20.09 - 3:55 pm
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awwwwww
poor JellyBelly : (
I wish thank you for trying to get me to go to the hospital. It shows how much you really care. I see what you did there, and it means a lot to me, thank you.
I hope your puppy is O.K.
TheDude responding to a
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10.20.09 - 4:01 pm
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get well, you bastard. i worry about you every time i toss a beer can in the trash.
slowrighthand10.20.09 - 4:04 pm
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Wow just reread what you wrote,
you're right regardless of a certificate or degree,
you are more knowledgeable with dealing with cancer patients.
but not with dealing with cancer.
you can't say what you'd do unless you were in the same situation.
Delirium10.20.09 - 4:16 pm
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chris,.
give me directions!
If I would have read this sooner I would have already been on my way over there!
I love you, man!
Busride42010.20.09 - 6:05 pm
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http://www.williamhittcenter.com/
alec10.20.09 - 6:19 pm
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This happens to be my area of expertise. Email me ur phone number...
Debut213@gmail.com
Debut21310.20.09 - 6:57 pm
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I love you guys so much, the love & support that's coming from this thread is so wonderful.
I wish I had a job so I can deliver a pound to you man if not more. Sorry, I can't help any further than just a few words.
Live strong, you're not alone you have Midnight Ridazz!!!!!
Alfredo responding to a
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10.20.09 - 8:29 pm
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Your words mean more than you might know. That goes for everyone here in this thread. I look forward to hanging out with you guys so much.
If anyone ever needs to get in contact with me, my e-mail and phone number are in my profile.
@Busride I live in alhambra off of Valley Blvd and garfield. Call me up if you still want to come over anytime, and I will give you more detailed info and whatnot.
TheDude responding to a
comment by Alfredo
10.20.09 - 9:14 pm
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Dude, post up a paypal immediately if you can, we've got your medical marijuana card covered.
JB responding to a
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10.20.09 - 9:46 pm
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feel better and lean on your friends, homie.
<3
steph responding to a
comment by JB
10.20.09 - 10:28 pm
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booboocat71@aol.com is my paypal account.
Thank you very much, you people are way too awesome
TheDude responding to a
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10.21.09 - 3:18 am
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How are you?
Hope school is going well for you.
TheDude responding to a
comment by steph
10.21.09 - 2:12 pm
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I hope you are feeling better Chris and hope to see you out on some rides here shortly. It's been too long.
vigilAnthony responding to a
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10.22.09 - 1:06 am
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Ridazz Roulette!
You guys are awesome.